Category Archives: acquaintances

How Do I Facebook?

In response to David Giesberg.

How Do You Facebook? | david giesberg dot com

How have I used Facebook so far?

  • Reconnected with old friends.
    • Bringing some to Facebook
    • Noticing some mutual friends.
  • Made some new contacts.
    • Through mutual acquaintances and foafs.
    • Through random circumstances.
  • Thought about social networks from an ethnographic perspective.
    • Discussed social networks in educational context.
    • Blogged about online forms of social networking.
  • “Communicated”
    • Sent messages to contacts in a relatively unintrusive way (less “pushy” than regular email).
    • Used “wall posts” to have short, public conversations about diverse items.
  • Micro-/nanoblogged, social-bookmarked:
    • Shared content (links, videos…) with contacts.
    • Found and discussed shared items.
    • Used my “status update” to keep contacts updated on recent developments on my life (something I rarely do in my blogposts).
  • Managed something of a public persona.
    • Maintained a semi-public profile.
    • Gained some social capital.
  • Found an alternative to Linkup/Upcoming/MeetUp/GCal?
    • Kept track of several events.
    • Organized a few events.
  • Had some aimless fun:
    • Teased people through their walls.
    • Answered a few quizzes.
    • Played a few games.
    • Discovered bands through contacts who “became fans” of them (I don’t use iLike).

Austin FOAFs

It surely is a small world. Especially between similar regions of the same continent.

My friend Jenny Cool tells me about her friend Jordan Weeks, a fellow blogging Austinite. And a fellow expat. Interestingly enough, he’s also a fellow beer aficionado and knows fellow Austin brewclub member Charles.

Where it gets even funnier is that Jordan is apparently a fellow ze frank fan.

So I feel the need to reach out to the fella.

Problem is, his blog doesn’t seem to allow for comments and I have no direct way to reach him. Oh, sure, I could ask Jenny or Charles for his email. But writing a blog entry just to ping someone is much more fun. 🙂

RĂ©seaux d'anciens

En prĂ©paration pour l’anniversaire de mon mariage avec Catherine (dĂ©jĂ  sept belles annĂ©es!) et fĂȘte de dĂ©part dĂ©finitif, j’effectue quelques recherches pour retracer de vieux amis. J’avais des vieux numĂ©ros de tĂ©lĂ©phone qui ne sont plus valides depuis longtemps, des adresses de courriel qui ne sont plus en service, des informations assez vagues sur les allĂ©es et venues de l’un ou de l’autre…

Peu de grandes rĂ©ussites dans mes tentatives. Quoique…

  • Les adresses des «copies conformes» peuvent se rĂ©vĂȘler utiles pour retracer plusieurs personnes Ă  la fois.
  • Canada411.ca nĂ©cessite une localisation relativement gĂ©nĂ©rale mais m’a permis de retrouver au moins deux personnes.
  • Les liens d’un ami Ă  l’autre peuvent s’avĂ©rer de bonnes pistes si quelques-uns d’entre eux ont gardĂ© des contacts.
  • Quelques personnes sont vraiment trĂšs stables.
  • Il y a plusieurs groupes pour les anciens de diverses Ă©coles.

Et c’est ce dernier point qui me pousse Ă  bloguer.

Par exemple, en cherchant des informations sur mon Ă©cole primaire, je tombe sur Retrouvailles.ca. Il s’agit de ce genre de site qui nĂ©cessite un abonnement payant pour ĂȘtre vraiment utile (Ă  la LinkedIn.com) mais c’est amusant d’y voir quelques noms connus, surtout des anciens du «Mont», la cĂ©lĂšbre Ă©cole secondaire Mont-de-La Salle. D’ailleurs, cette mĂȘme Ă©cole a deux groupes Facebook pour les anciens. Au premier juillet 2007, le premier groupe d’anciens du Mont a 127 membres et le deuxiĂšme en a 35 mais avec une belle photo du Mont. En fait, il y a aussi un groupe pour les immigrants qui Ă©taient au Mont, avec 41 membres.

Ce type de dĂ©marche, ça met beaucoup de choses en perspective. Je ne suis encore jamais allĂ© Ă  une rĂ©union d’anciens Ă©tudiants (j’Ă©tais gĂ©nĂ©ralement hors du QuĂ©bec quand elles se sont produites). Mais l’effet me semble assez similaire.

À la prĂ©sente Ă©tape de ma quĂȘte, il vaut mieux pour moi attendre les rĂ©sultats de quelques tentatives de prise de contact. Peut-ĂȘtre que rien ne va fonctionner, mais c’est amusant d’essayer.

Quoi qu’il en soit, je crois que notre cĂ©lĂ©bration sera trĂšs agrĂ©able dans l’ensemble. Ce qui sera peut-ĂȘtre le plus amusant, c’est que des gens de diffĂ©rents rĂ©seaux vont se croiser Ă  cette occasion et certains vont peut-ĂȘtre entretenir des rapports plus Ă©troits dans le futur.

Friendship and Schools

The recent controversy over Facebook connects with an interesting issue. Here’s a comment from the Buzz Out Loud podcast.
Show Notes 307 – CNET Buzz Out Loud Lounge Forums

Bill sticks up for FacebookIf you look closer into the anti-News Feeds/Mini-Feed groups on
Facebook, 90 percent of the people that are protesting this “invasion of
privacy” are the people with hundreds of friends that they likely just
added to boost their “e-cred.” Most level-headed people that add only
their real-life friends myself included are finding the new additions
extremely useful. I love that I can go to Facebook on my cell phone and
find out everything that has happened since I last checked the site
without wandering aimlessly all over the place. Its a lot better than
wasting a 15-cent text message to be told that I was poked.

Maybe people need to learn the meaning of the word “friend” before they
complain about their friends being updated on what theyre doing.

Love the show, keep up the good work,

-Bill

Well, my observation is that, in the U.S., and especially in schools, colleges, and universities (Facebook’s target market), the term “friend” is applied to almost anyone with whom one is on friendly terms. People in a hierarchical relationship (say, professor and student) typically don’t call each other friend even when their relationship is sound. “Friend” isn’t necessarily the opposite of “ennemy” or “competitor” and friends do compete in many situations. There’s a whole lot more to say about this and anthropologists have been surprisingly silent about the importance of friendship in U.S. society.

Another thing to think about is that a special notion of friendship is at the basis of what O’Reilly calls “Web 2.0” and was already present in (now defunct) SixDegrees.com as well as today’s MySpace.com and other Facebook.com.